where

Sexuality

meets

Technology

I help sexuality professionals, educators, and community builders save time, scale impact, and explore the future of intimacy tech.



Who I Am

Hi! I'm Janelle Toussaint -- a student sexologist, intimacy educator, and technologist.After years of building products in tech and studying the science of sexuality, I created The SexTechnologist as a way to bring both worlds together. I help sexuality professionals and community builders save time, scale their impact, and design the future of intimacy tech.✨ Want a taste of how I work?✨
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What I Do

Through my consulting work I build digital tools and create thought leadership that helps sexuality professionals thrive in an AI-driven world without losing the heart of human connection.

Consulting & Audits

Running a sex-positive business is already enough work.
Let me help you design systems that save 5–10 hours a week and keep your focus where it belongs: on your people, not admin.

SexTech Toolbox

From privacy-first age verification plugins to Discord bots for community spaces, I'm building micro-tools that give educators and organizers the professional edge they deserve without enterprise-level pricing.

Thought Leadership

I speak, write, and create at the intersection of sexuality and technology.From panels to workshops, I help audiences explore how intimacy, innovation, and eroticism shape our personal and professional lives. You can also find me breaking ideas down on Substack and TikTok blending cheeky insights with grounded expertise.


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10 AI Prompts Every Sex Educator Should Know



The SexTech Toolbox

I'm building a set of practical, privacy-first tools for sexuality professionals, educators, and community hosts.Too many of us are juggling admin, safety, or logistics on top of teaching and creating. The SexTech Toolbox is my answer: small, affordable products that handle the back-end work so you can focus on the work that actually lights you up.First up:
🔒 Age Verification Plugin — a simple, ethical way to keep your websites compliant and your communities safe without storing sensitive data.
Coming soon:
đŸ’Ŧ Discord Verification Bot for community spaces
đŸŽŸī¸ Event automation tools to handle invites, reminders, and follow-ups
✍đŸŊ A chrome extension that filters your social media captions so you don't have to


Looking for more ways to connect?

🌱 Explore GardenBed → my new platform for sex-positive community leaders
đŸĒŠ Join me IRL at Haus of Bliss → curated intimacy events & play experiences
đŸ”Ĩ Want to book me as a kink performer? → Email me